說與不說都無奈 - 化療
By Andrew
at 2013-06-01T23:43
at 2013-06-01T23:43
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我的身分是媳婦,生病的是我公公(65歲),家中做決定的是婆婆。
婆婆與其他長輩討論後,決定先不要告訴公公,他已經是胰臟癌第四期。
醫生沒有告訴我們”估計剩下的時間”,這樣也好,總是有希望。
這樣也不好,如果病情急轉直下,我們真的還沒做好心理準備啊!
公公這一兩個月來都喊胃不舒服(皮膚也癢了快一年),以為跟之前一樣是胃潰瘍,
一直到五月底才檢查出胰臟有腫瘤,擴散且不能開刀了。
目前做了第一次化療,已經回家休養。他不知道自己的病情,不知道那是化療,
所以化療之後還騎車外出辦事.買東西.簽六合彩,家人也不敢直接明講阻止他出門。
因為不知道病情,所以他對於婆婆買的一堆營養品覺得浪費,總說:這麼多怎麼喝的完?
公公一直都是個”搞操煩”的人,之前好像還有吃抗憂鬱的藥物,
對於家中大小事總是要千叮嚀萬囑咐的,每次出門都要很仔細的巡一巡才放心
(這也算是優點吧!)。
認識他的親朋好友大都覺得,不要告訴他實情比較好,
不然他可能會一直煩惱.鬱悶,從此一蹶不振。
可是,依他這種”搞操煩”的個性,說不定他真的有很多事情想交代,
若是到最後,真的來不及做,他會不會很遺憾呢?
看著他逐漸衰弱的身體,大家心裡都很難過。
說與不說,其實都充滿著無奈。
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