該怎麼安慰? - 化療

By Aaliyah
at 2007-08-31T22:07
at 2007-08-31T22:07
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老實說我真的快受不了了...所以才來po這篇...
我媽媽是乳癌二期,目前暫時剛打完療程,還要不要繼續要等醫師的結果報告,
꜊得到癌症心情一定會很無助,恐懼,害怕等等,
這些在我媽媽身上都有表現出來,我也盡可能陪伴他和他聊天,說鼓勵的話,
也買了勵志的書給他,但是,我覺得我做了都是白做了~!
我媽媽三兩天就會告訴我一些很喪氣的話,
像這個禮拜,他先跟我說:我懷疑我轉移到肺部了!
過兩天換說:我覺得醫師欺騙我,我的病情一定好不了!
今天換說:我看我得了厭食症了。(打化療食慾本來就會不好啊!)
以上只是這一個禮拜的...我真的好累!我好希望他能好起來!不管在身體上或心理上!
我都會跟他說:你不要亂懷疑,你可以跟醫生問清楚啊~!
但他過幾天,就又想一些新的問題出來折磨自己,我真的好想哭,
我已經不知道該怎麼和他對話了...請問板友是否有建議可以給我嗎?感激。
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我媽媽是乳癌二期,目前暫時剛打完療程,還要不要繼續要等醫師的結果報告,
꜊得到癌症心情一定會很無助,恐懼,害怕等等,
這些在我媽媽身上都有表現出來,我也盡可能陪伴他和他聊天,說鼓勵的話,
也買了勵志的書給他,但是,我覺得我做了都是白做了~!
我媽媽三兩天就會告訴我一些很喪氣的話,
像這個禮拜,他先跟我說:我懷疑我轉移到肺部了!
過兩天換說:我覺得醫師欺騙我,我的病情一定好不了!
今天換說:我看我得了厭食症了。(打化療食慾本來就會不好啊!)
以上只是這一個禮拜的...我真的好累!我好希望他能好起來!不管在身體上或心理上!
我都會跟他說:你不要亂懷疑,你可以跟醫生問清楚啊~!
但他過幾天,就又想一些新的問題出來折磨自己,我真的好想哭,
我已經不知道該怎麼和他對話了...請問板友是否有建議可以給我嗎?感激。
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All Comments

By Hazel
at 2007-09-03T08:00
at 2007-09-03T08:00
志工,有心靈輔導員,沙童這邊的護理長,在英國唸的就

By Anthony
at 2007-09-04T20:42
at 2007-09-04T20:42

By Zenobia
at 2007-09-04T23:23
at 2007-09-04T23:23
是很謝謝她,因為,她在最後階段,也給了我不少建議。

By Olive
at 2007-09-07T16:51
at 2007-09-07T16:51

By Mary
at 2007-09-08T01:48
at 2007-09-08T01:48
我們碰過一個在我媽面前說我弟活不超過七天 結果我媽回醫院

By Yuri
at 2007-09-12T16:04
at 2007-09-12T16:04
了他家的招牌 七天 我弟到現在不知道過了多少個七天) 所以還

By Lily
at 2007-09-14T00:03
at 2007-09-14T00:03

By Ingrid
at 2007-09-17T13:16
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By Madame
at 2007-09-17T19:40
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By Jake
at 2007-09-19T00:39
at 2007-09-19T00:39

By George
at 2007-09-22T21:55
at 2007-09-22T21:55
有時候我氣不過就是這樣跟我媽說...只是我是說

By Jack
at 2007-09-26T13:47
at 2007-09-26T13:47

By Elizabeth
at 2007-09-30T08:55
at 2007-09-30T08:55

By Edward Lewis
at 2007-10-04T03:58
at 2007-10-04T03:58

By Isabella
at 2007-10-08T21:43
at 2007-10-08T21:43
幹嘛不挑快樂的過活? 把自己搞得這麼痛苦啊?
以上都是用台語講的 很台 但是也狠狠地讓媽瞇乖乖就範....

By Puput
at 2007-10-10T13:16
at 2007-10-10T13:16
你或許可以較媽媽努力專心作化療,不要東想西想,要相信醫生

By Una
at 2007-10-13T02:42
at 2007-10-13T02:42

By Carol
at 2007-10-15T08:41
at 2007-10-15T08:41
或是乾脆開始跟他研究病情(我是這樣啦...)

By Mason
at 2007-10-20T03:03
at 2007-10-20T03:03
他也變得很愛亂想,懷疑東懷疑西,一下子骨頭,一下子

By Harry
at 2007-10-21T23:42
at 2007-10-21T23:42

By Kelly
at 2007-10-25T22:04
at 2007-10-25T22:04

By Elizabeth
at 2007-10-28T03:35
at 2007-10-28T03:35
告訴她【你的害怕我懂,大家不能幫你痛,但一定會陪著꜠

By Kristin
at 2007-10-30T10:51
at 2007-10-30T10:51

By John
at 2007-11-02T19:32
at 2007-11-02T19:32

By Steve
at 2007-11-05T22:51
at 2007-11-05T22:51
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