該不該告訴公婆事實? - 化療
By Mason
at 2014-11-10T14:27
at 2014-11-10T14:27
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十月初公公頭暈嘔吐三個禮拜後,
到大醫院照電腦斷層發現有腦瘤,
立即住院排刀取出,
上週二拿到病理切片報告,
是GBM(多形性膠母細胞瘤;WHO IV)
上網查了資料, 才知道比我們想像的嚴重N倍,
復發機率幾乎100%, 癌細胞對化療放療的抵抗力很強...
不做後續治療(化療&放療)存活4-6個月
既使做了治療平均壽命也只有14個月
更別提五年存活率4%.....
包括我在內的三個孩子都知道,
但是沒有告訴公婆, 怕他們連希望都沒了.
我真的很掙扎, 到底該不該跟他們說,
如果沒說, 萬一在不久的將來公公復發了,
可能連說話能力都沒有, 或是喪失記憶之類的,
會不會怪我們沒有提早告訴他,
讓他可以趕快去做自己想做的事情呢?
當老天爺跟你說要在不久的未來帶你走,
是不是也給你一個機會好好跟大家說再見,
好好為自己做點甚麼事情呢?
大家覺得我們到底該不該現在就告訴他們呢?
真的好兩難阿!!
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