孩子的爸爸~我好想你 - 抗癌
By Puput
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我的先生,已於中秋節,離苦得樂,無病無痛了!
從四月底確診膀胱癌四期開始,這四個多月來,走的很辛苦,曾經滿懷鬥志,也ㄧ再從病
況變化的打擊中,跌落谷底再繼續努力掙扎。只是,說再見的時刻,還是到了...
最後幾天,我們轉進了安寧病房,也在護理師和親友的動員下,提早中秋團圓,生前告別
。好好說愛、好好說再見。
人生走到這個階段—道謝、道愛、道歉、道別,是非常重要的事,我相信,讓大家有機會
勇敢的說出自己的想法,而不是等到離開了才懊悔,對即將遠行的人以及活著的人都是非
常有意義的。
還好在他最後一次能完整表達想法時我記錄了下來,讓他還能對至親好友訴說祝福和愛;
還好之前就算病況嚴峻,我們還是請了四小假,再去淡水看了趟夕陽;還好離開前ㄧ天,
讓你喝了最愛的冰沙...
但我心裡還是有滿滿的不捨,他才38歲,我們的兩個孩子也才剛滿三歲,一家人相處的時
間真的太短太短了!那天離開殯儀館時,突然覺得好有罪惡感,怎麼你孤零零的躺在冰櫃
裡,而我們卻行走在陽光下。中午吃飯時,突然驚覺四個多月來都沒有好好吃過一頓飯,
但看著食物卻很難不想到,從6月起就被禁食的你,有多麼渴望能再好好吃上一頓。
只希望最守信的你,能夠用各種方式,告訴我你在天上的家,過得很好!
老公,我真的好想你!如果有天我得走上你的路,我想我也不會害怕,因為代表著我很快
就可以跟你再見面了...
—
鼓起勇氣分享,是因為不管是身為病患或是後勤,走過這條路真的很不容易。而文字是ㄧ
種溫暖的力量、影像是一種永恆的紀念,能夠穿越時空,亙古留念。書寫記錄過程的本身
,就是一種心靈的療癒。在難過時、在徬惶時,看一看、想一想,或許就能找到再站起來
的理由、再繼續努力的力量。
如果你還在努力,請盡可能留下ㄧ些記錄給家人;如果你還在陪伴,請珍惜相處的每一時
刻。那ㄧ天終將會到來,而我們只能盡力減少懊悔和遺憾。
https://www.facebook.com/rydadfightcancer/
# 瑢爸與源爸的抗癌日記
--
從四月底確診膀胱癌四期開始,這四個多月來,走的很辛苦,曾經滿懷鬥志,也ㄧ再從病
況變化的打擊中,跌落谷底再繼續努力掙扎。只是,說再見的時刻,還是到了...
最後幾天,我們轉進了安寧病房,也在護理師和親友的動員下,提早中秋團圓,生前告別
。好好說愛、好好說再見。
人生走到這個階段—道謝、道愛、道歉、道別,是非常重要的事,我相信,讓大家有機會
勇敢的說出自己的想法,而不是等到離開了才懊悔,對即將遠行的人以及活著的人都是非
常有意義的。
還好在他最後一次能完整表達想法時我記錄了下來,讓他還能對至親好友訴說祝福和愛;
還好之前就算病況嚴峻,我們還是請了四小假,再去淡水看了趟夕陽;還好離開前ㄧ天,
讓你喝了最愛的冰沙...
但我心裡還是有滿滿的不捨,他才38歲,我們的兩個孩子也才剛滿三歲,一家人相處的時
間真的太短太短了!那天離開殯儀館時,突然覺得好有罪惡感,怎麼你孤零零的躺在冰櫃
裡,而我們卻行走在陽光下。中午吃飯時,突然驚覺四個多月來都沒有好好吃過一頓飯,
但看著食物卻很難不想到,從6月起就被禁食的你,有多麼渴望能再好好吃上一頓。
只希望最守信的你,能夠用各種方式,告訴我你在天上的家,過得很好!
老公,我真的好想你!如果有天我得走上你的路,我想我也不會害怕,因為代表著我很快
就可以跟你再見面了...
—
鼓起勇氣分享,是因為不管是身為病患或是後勤,走過這條路真的很不容易。而文字是ㄧ
種溫暖的力量、影像是一種永恆的紀念,能夠穿越時空,亙古留念。書寫記錄過程的本身
,就是一種心靈的療癒。在難過時、在徬惶時,看一看、想一想,或許就能找到再站起來
的理由、再繼續努力的力量。
如果你還在努力,請盡可能留下ㄧ些記錄給家人;如果你還在陪伴,請珍惜相處的每一時
刻。那ㄧ天終將會到來,而我們只能盡力減少懊悔和遺憾。
https://www.facebook.com/rydadfightcancer/
# 瑢爸與源爸的抗癌日記
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