25年後的今天,才知道我爸的死因 - 肺癌
By Doris
at 2023-04-03T10:15
at 2023-04-03T10:15
Table of Contents
首先,我不知道PO這邊適不適合,但因為跟癌症有關,就當分享文吧
25年前,我父親被診斷出肺癌末期,第一次強迫他去檢查就已經是末期了,當時在家全身
無力,只能整天臥床
(其實早有前兆,我父親自己知道,不去檢查而已,有次他咳嗽吐痰,痰中有血,問他他
回答說沒有,你們看錯了…)
最後在我父親兄弟的攙扶下,坐上計程車,去林口的某家醫院,這時候醫院醫生才診斷出
肺癌,而且已經是第四期
當然,接著父親住院了,看他表情很痛苦,呼吸不順外,就一直很喘,也無法睡覺,也吃
不下任何東西,我當時才14歲也不知道該怎辦…
我、我媽、我哥、還有我小阿姨輪流顧我父親,我小阿姨在的時候,會幫我父親拍背,我
父親說舒服很多,所以很喜歡我小阿姨去顧他,而我媽去只會一直碎碎念,念到我自己都
想逃開,更何況是我父親,會叫她回家
醫生經過評估,說我父親目前身體太虛、抵抗力不夠等等,無法做放射線治療,風險太高
,所以就先住院(住一般病房
但我父親病情一天比一天糟,沒法睡覺、沒吃東西當然越來越糟,最後喘的連說話都沒辦
法
住院大約2個星期後,某晚,我顧我父親時,呼吸頻率開始減少,還突然帶有明顯的水聲
,我趕快去打電話給我媽
我媽很久才來,一大票親戚也來了,我、我媽、我哥在病床旁,緊握我父親的手
不久後幾個護士推著一台機器進來,當時的我不知道護士們要做啥?這大台機器是什麼?
只清楚知道護士們還在那邊嬉鬧
然後護士請我們離開病床,站到機器後面去,接著機器對著我父親發出啪的聲音
那一瞬間,我父親緩慢的吐出呼吸後,就躺在病床上,不動了(我強烈感受到我父親的生
氣一瞬間全消失了)
……………分隔線…………
25年後的我才知道,護士沒有在醫生允許之下,直接對我父親做放射線治療,據我媽的說
法,醫生後來才趕來,把護士們痛罵一頓,說怎可以沒有他的許可,就這樣直接對病人照
射…
所以該怎麼說呢?我父親本來可以再活一陣子,因為該死的護士自作主張,害死我父親?
因為醫院的不當醫療行為,導致我父親提早離開?
所以我父親算不算病死,還是人為?
--
25年前,我父親被診斷出肺癌末期,第一次強迫他去檢查就已經是末期了,當時在家全身
無力,只能整天臥床
(其實早有前兆,我父親自己知道,不去檢查而已,有次他咳嗽吐痰,痰中有血,問他他
回答說沒有,你們看錯了…)
最後在我父親兄弟的攙扶下,坐上計程車,去林口的某家醫院,這時候醫院醫生才診斷出
肺癌,而且已經是第四期
當然,接著父親住院了,看他表情很痛苦,呼吸不順外,就一直很喘,也無法睡覺,也吃
不下任何東西,我當時才14歲也不知道該怎辦…
我、我媽、我哥、還有我小阿姨輪流顧我父親,我小阿姨在的時候,會幫我父親拍背,我
父親說舒服很多,所以很喜歡我小阿姨去顧他,而我媽去只會一直碎碎念,念到我自己都
想逃開,更何況是我父親,會叫她回家
醫生經過評估,說我父親目前身體太虛、抵抗力不夠等等,無法做放射線治療,風險太高
,所以就先住院(住一般病房
但我父親病情一天比一天糟,沒法睡覺、沒吃東西當然越來越糟,最後喘的連說話都沒辦
法
住院大約2個星期後,某晚,我顧我父親時,呼吸頻率開始減少,還突然帶有明顯的水聲
,我趕快去打電話給我媽
我媽很久才來,一大票親戚也來了,我、我媽、我哥在病床旁,緊握我父親的手
不久後幾個護士推著一台機器進來,當時的我不知道護士們要做啥?這大台機器是什麼?
只清楚知道護士們還在那邊嬉鬧
然後護士請我們離開病床,站到機器後面去,接著機器對著我父親發出啪的聲音
那一瞬間,我父親緩慢的吐出呼吸後,就躺在病床上,不動了(我強烈感受到我父親的生
氣一瞬間全消失了)
……………分隔線…………
25年後的我才知道,護士沒有在醫生允許之下,直接對我父親做放射線治療,據我媽的說
法,醫生後來才趕來,把護士們痛罵一頓,說怎可以沒有他的許可,就這樣直接對病人照
射…
所以該怎麼說呢?我父親本來可以再活一陣子,因為該死的護士自作主張,害死我父親?
因為醫院的不當醫療行為,導致我父親提早離開?
所以我父親算不算病死,還是人為?
--
Tags:
肺癌
All Comments
By Rebecca
at 2023-04-07T21:49
at 2023-04-07T21:49
By Aaliyah
at 2023-04-12T09:23
at 2023-04-12T09:23
By Blanche
at 2023-04-16T20:58
at 2023-04-16T20:58
By Ivy
at 2023-04-21T08:32
at 2023-04-21T08:32
By Puput
at 2023-04-25T20:07
at 2023-04-25T20:07
By Caitlin
at 2023-04-30T07:41
at 2023-04-30T07:41
By Ursula
at 2023-05-04T19:15
at 2023-05-04T19:15
By Adele
at 2023-05-09T06:50
at 2023-05-09T06:50
By Zora
at 2023-05-13T18:24
at 2023-05-13T18:24
By Ethan
at 2023-05-18T05:59
at 2023-05-18T05:59
By Erin
at 2023-05-22T17:33
at 2023-05-22T17:33
By Jacky
at 2023-05-27T05:07
at 2023-05-27T05:07
By Isla
at 2023-05-31T16:42
at 2023-05-31T16:42
By Leila
at 2023-06-05T04:16
at 2023-06-05T04:16
By Hamiltion
at 2023-06-09T15:51
at 2023-06-09T15:51
By Enid
at 2023-06-14T03:25
at 2023-06-14T03:25
By Jack
at 2023-06-18T14:59
at 2023-06-18T14:59
By Elvira
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Isla
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Emma
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Blanche
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Leila
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Mia
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Hedwig
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Ina
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Doris
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Caroline
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Franklin
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Tristan Cohan
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Franklin
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Andrew
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Dora
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Robert
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Harry
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Jacob
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Jacob
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Dinah
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Jake
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Mary
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Mary
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Damian
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Ethan
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Andy
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Hazel
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Christine
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Zanna
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Susan
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Donna
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Linda
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Elvira
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Ina
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Cara
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Adele
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Freda
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Emma
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Joe
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By James
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Ula
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Tom
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Vanessa
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Agnes
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Puput
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Eden
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Andrew
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Sierra Rose
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Ursula
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Eartha
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Jacob
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Agnes
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Leila
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Bethany
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Margaret
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Jake
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
By Sarah
at 2023-06-16T07:16
at 2023-06-16T07:16
By Olivia
at 2023-06-20T18:50
at 2023-06-20T18:50
Related Posts
乳癌/肺癌/口腔癌訪談 車馬費2500~3000元
By Mary
at 2023-03-10T09:31
at 2023-03-10T09:31
健檢重要性與肺癌跟COVID-19的關聯?
By Edith
at 2023-02-27T08:04
at 2023-02-27T08:04
肺癌自費藥物
By Joseph
at 2023-02-24T19:39
at 2023-02-24T19:39
不到40歲罹患肺腺癌4期
By Zenobia
at 2023-02-24T12:13
at 2023-02-24T12:13
肺癌&口腔癌患者/照護者訪問 2500~3000元
By Tristan Cohan
at 2023-02-08T19:08
at 2023-02-08T19:08